Let’s have an open talk on the advice to spend money to manifest money.
It sounds like a cosmic shake down to me: You want — really need — some cash? Watcha gonna give? Who’s book on money magic are ya gonna buy? And then, you better spend it out of the right place in your heart, because if you’re giving to get, then you’re out of luck and that $10 investment in your financial well-being. Universe Dearest, is that you?
Where’s the right place in your heart when your back is against the wall and you’re feeling the squeeze of not having enough? Or maybe you have enough to live, but not enough to pursue your dreams and a blind leap ain’t an option right now.
And just to be fair, that advice isn’t limited to us liberal, woo, new age-y types. I spent a lot of my 20’s in some wild churches. (I know…you don’t hear that a lot about the 20’s do you?!) Preachers encouraged attendees to jump up and down three times, give $50 to the building fund, write checks equaling the amount of their need… It’s all of bad financial advice with the promise that God will respond with buckets of cash if you just get it right. That getting it right part absolves the guru of any responsibility and places it square in your failed-to-give-from-the-right-place heart. When money doesn’t show up, it feels like God/the Universe is playing games with your heart. You’re left wondering what went wrong or where the malice in your heart is that is causing the block to your financial flow.
You know what: There’s nothing wrong with your heart and there isn’t a game in the cosmos. Stop giving/spending cash you don’t have.
That’s not just bad spiritual practice, it’s terrible money advice. You can’t give from a depleted source…it only creates more lack among other problems.
Instead of giving what you don’t have, start with giving yourself and your higher power the truth about how you’re feeling about your financial situation.
- Go to the space in your body where you hold your tension.
- Pull the cover off your feelings — your shame, your fear, your anger…whatever is in there.
- Open it all up.
- Pour it all out…write it, pray, speak it…however you do your thing.
You can handle it. God can handle it.
Clearing out the junk clears the block and opens you up to flow.
As you open up, you’ll find that you’re guided in how you give of yourself and your money. You’ll get clarity (and keep getting clarity) on the root of your money issues. You’ll be guided in what books or other resources will help you create and manage your money, rather than spending money in search of magic. You’ll find that money itself begins to flow toward you instead of rushing away…which is how you feel when you’re pockets are hurtin’.
I want to stop here for now. There are some weeds in the yard that are calling my name and I want to let this sit for a minute.
What are your thoughts/experiences on manifesting money?
I’d love to hear from you!
Peace, love and abundance to you,
Jen